i ve become my own version of an optimist. if i cant make it through one door, i'll go through another door or i'll make a door. something terrafic will come no matter how dark the present. Looking For: u know there are 14 human emotions, 7 positive & 7 negative, i.e positive = desire, faith, love, sex, enthusiasm, romance & hope. negative = fear, jealousy, hatred, revenge, greed, superstition & anger. You cannot be in love until & unless u know the person in & out. u have to be a double PHD in all his/her 14 emotions and then if u still like the person u can say "i love you".... Let me ask u a question. When two people really love each other, when does the time comes, when enuf is enuf ?